
There's less than 10 days before the big event. No publicity has been put up. No planning has taken place. There's been some ideas thrown around. There's been assurances up to this point that everything is fine.
But everything is not fine.
A student leader is called in and asked point blank: Are we ready to go here?
The answer: No...not really.
Now this student leader is at a crossroads. She has just been exposed (for this article, the student leader in question will be a she...it could just as easily be a he). She has a choice to make in the direction she will now move - toward excellence or excuses.
The immediate temptation that a student leader will face when she is found out is toward excuses.
But I have just had so much homework...
I assigned this to someone else and they haven't come through...
I called and left a message but no one got back to me...
It's not my fault...
Every one of those statements may be TRUE...but in the context of unfulfilled responsibilities...they ring hollow and only sound like excuses.
There may even be GOOD reasons why things haven't moved forward like the student leader would have liked. But placing blame on circumstances or other people keeps a student leader from accepting the one thing that every student leader must accept...
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
A student leader will move toward excellence when she looks at a failing situation and responds with something like...
I dropped the ball. I will get right on it...
I am sorry that I completely missed that. It's my own fault...
I will find a way to make that happen today...
With statements like that, people are more willing to move past the mistake and get back to work. When a student leader takes personal responsibility and works to make things right, it makes things better.
We are often confronted with people and circumstances that become obstacles to getting things done. A student leader will find ways to move forward in the midst of those obstacles. That's why it's called leadership. If a student leader is tossed around by the obstacles she faces...then she's no longer leading.
Of course there will be times where a mistake occurs, where an appointment is missed, where preparation hasn't happened. Student leadership is a laboratory where young people are learning what it means to be a leader. It's what occurs in RESPONSE to those down times that will define the leader's direction toward excuses or excellence.
With excuses, I'm thinking of things like: blame, pride, continually making the same mistake, defensive, insensitive, dogmatic, and being a victim.
With excellence, I recognize it in things like: apologies, humility, learn from mistakes, flexibility, solving problems, intentional, and personal responsibility.
So I will repeat the question: What are you going to do when you're exposed?
Excuses or excellence...the choice is yours.
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